We have flirted on and off throughout the last few years but never anything serious because we both have been in relationships. There is also a stereotype that Geminis are two face and airy, which is usually exaggerated negatively by others. Betrayal can consume me as much as love can. There is very little I expect and very little that fazes me but the moment I get the whiff of disloyalty I will stake out my game and take him down he will never come up. No hidden but an honest clear answer and I like this very much. I would wait forever if he asked. Although Scorpio men are quick to pull the plug, he will start to pull away emotionally before this time. If your Scorpio is the type to pop up whenever he needs something, only to disappear again, then stoop to his level - give him the old cold shoulder. If he loves you, he will be asking a lot of questions about everything that has something to do with you. Basically we only knew each other online and have made plans to be in a couple months. We both have kids. These planets govern war, aggression, sexuality, and deep transformational change. He will not tell me what is wrong. This page really helped, Kris. Source: Favim. Scorpio in love is intense, loving, and enveloping. He is an emotional guy so ignoring him would only get him angry. This protective behavior comes naturally to them. Scorpios like to be in control of the relationship. They rarely pretend and are very bad at telling lies (and hate when others do so). We're both 15, and we've both admitted we "like each other". If you notice the Scorpio guy getting possessive about you, be sure that he is in love with you. Also with some women I have a great attraction but is not always about sex, but companionship, frienship. Their hard outer shell seems tough and a bit dark, but it's all to protect the bleeding heart within. Speaking for myself, it's more of an arcing effect. He has dropped off the face of the earth but yet when I do see him for a few minutes , he is great! will ask you 100 personal questions but won't tell you much about themselves, can rev from 0 to 100 in a matter of seconds but may let off the gas just as fast (they will likely be the one to determine the speed of a new relationship), when they finally find "The One", they love them with every fiber of their being, can hold a grudge for years but is also capable of deep healing work, tender forgiveness, and bringing dark wounds to the light, will take the time to understand their partner to their core and nurture them accordingly, wants it their way and has a hard time compromising, ignites the spark of a twin flame relationship you'll never forget, although they might instigate many fights within the relationship, they will also fight for the relationship when it needs saving. They may tell occasional white lies, but they can never truly pretend or fake, which means they often come off as overly blunt. Ignore him, he will retalia Do I give him space and let him sort it out? I guess he never was that interested after all. Complex for sure, but no more so than any other sign. Does he seem intensely interested in you and your plansalmost coming off as a bit of a stalkerbut only to go off the grid completely before once again coming onto you as strongly as before? Strong, handsome, great personality, warm, kind, friendly, funny, etc. I told him I didnt know because he hurt my feelings and I felt like he was playing games with me. He is royally pissed off, and instead of lashing out, he has decided to spare you his vindictive tongue. He finally texted me this morning, I was starting to wonder if he was doing the #5 thing! Scorpios usually act like this because they're super sensitive and afraid of getting hurt. It doesn't mean that he isn't into you or doesn't care. We are not together, 50/50 shared responsibility for break up. After all we have been together for 2 and I a half but he is not receptive to my feelings. He may not have found anything special in you that would make him stay. We haven't talked to each other much since. He wanted to see me then changed his mind.wth. male scorps). This is so true! I am a Cancer girl but a very strong personality as well. I have a Scorpio issue for sure. Angel Ward from Galveston, TX on July 25, 2012: I agree 1000% And the comment with a scorp's mom in the hospital, there is always some drama going on, that's a great excuse for withdrawal, to distract the sig. this morning when we went to my office he is very sweet. They have to so that they don't feel guilty about retaliating. The Scorpio Man likes having space. My dad, brother and ldr bf are all scorps and my bf is triple scorp and I can tell u this is absolutely true for these guys! These tips are meant to mitigate possible challenges in a Scorpio partnership, but if you ever feel threatened, manipulated, or mistreatedthey are not worth your wellbeing. I think the act of distancing himself is more painful than you realize and it probably takes extreme will to stay away. I M REALLY CONFUSED how can we both manage. One day we are talking future the next day he drops me cold. But I have a son who was looking up to him. I'm pretty sure something i said or the fact that he has to repeat himself various times and doesn't understand why I laugh at everything without explanation finally reached a ticking point. I've dated other Scorpios before and they were all super cool in the beginning and then they became mean afterwards so it wasn't hard for me to let go of them. It's not easy but I can say that if you are not confident in yourself then it will eat you alive. I never seen this side of him. both of us want sex but somehow, i started to doubt him and realize i dont really just want sex. He seldom wallows in envy or self-pity, and he doesn't happen to think that life owes him a single farthing. He feels burned or embarrassed and has withdrawn to nurse his wounds. Hi im a scorpio female and i have this habit of disspearing for a few days when im going through all the above phases. All it comes down to is whether hes a nice guy and whether both of you treat each other right, if not then end the relationship and move on (irrespective of whether or not hes a Scorpio and whatever your sunsign is ) . Said we must become friends b4 lovers. :). Keep your individuality and don't be needy or whiny. i am with a scorpio boy , it's 13 months that we are with each other , yes i agree with all , he is so different with all , at first he flirted alot , after few month i fell in love with him & i told him & during the time this feel got more & more . It tells me that he thinks the relationship is strong enough that he doesn't have to worry about putting on a show and being talkative every day. Here's what . What does he want from me How would I knw he is lying to me(scorpio) he said he is not over his ex and need time to deal with his feelings. A Scorpio enjoys cinematic and classically romantic dates. My bf is soo hot and heavy everyday and then goes off the grid for no more than 48 hrs every so often, and it is usually cuz he is genuinely busy. I would wait for him although as a Cancer I am really not good at waiting on people. I woke up the next day with him just going off his nut and blocking me on his facebok. They hone in on a project and become very obsessed. I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. I live in Wisconsin. They are a little different . So I have made it a point to not bring that into "us" I also invited him to hangout with my friends for Thanksgiving and with family for Christmas. Though last week I text him about a minor accident he was very concerned . Top 5 tips on how to get a Scorpio woman back: Be honest, direct and precise, don't waste her time. Then we didn't talk much about what happened except I had asked him if he's testing me subconsciously and he said that maybe but he's not sure. This approach may work for some signs, but on a Gemini man, it will have the opposite of the desired effect. The more clingy and desperate you act, the more likely you are to pull yourself . The very darkest parts of who they are will begin to emerge - the longer you're with them, the more you'll notice. A month or so before meeting, he opened up a lot about his personal life to me, and it felt like I was finally getting to know him as a person. I waited a day to respond, and just said "hi." Sometimes a hug and affection is of more value than sexual relations. Scorpio is the most emotionally vulnerable sign, yet when they put up their defences, no one can damage them. needless to say it is a long distance relationship on top of that we don't see each other as much as we would like to. He can't expect you to read his mind, but here's what he might be feelingand likely has been feeling for quite some time. They are direct and purposeful, independent and overall pretty happy. Love yourself, have your own projects and passions in life and trust in God. Being in Love is wonderful. Scorpio sun signs are born from October 23November 21, right between Libra and Sagittarius. Eyes are the windows to the soul and can tell so much about a person - especially if that person is a Scorpio! Recently at work, a scorpio girl was chatting me up. Make him WORK for you, if he wont then keep it moving as he will if it were you. This way, it's a little easier to tell if the Scorpio is interested or not. Keep this in mind so that you don't take his behavior personally. Image: SANAI 2 base museum in Antarctica. Give her some space for her to get past the upset. I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. Luv this hub. I couldn't understand this guy for the life of me but I was really falling for him because of it. He messaged me a few days later and told me he had messed up and couldnt stop thinking about it so could we hang out again. Then when they already knew it's sign of love, they trick their mind assuming the object isn't feel the same, again, to avoid disappointment. Help!! He texted the next day a long paragraph why I demonstrate no communication by not texting back and that he wasn't mad at me that day etc Then I gave him a long paragraph explanation reply. What to do when Scorpio man ignores you? It shows his deep love . He is very obsessive and jealous type of guy. He'll especially spend time on things he's passionate about such as art, music, or even his career. So we've been checking our snapchat stories which he only posted two and so did I. I feel like my situation is probably number 5 but sometimes I get a feeling he will try to contact me one day idk. What do you guys think??? I just don't have time to waste. Hi, I'm a Leo who was dating a Scorpio for 3 and half months. Knowing that you are doing well makes Scorpio man miss you and want to come back. In other words, if you can't tell which of the first four reasons is the reason he has withdrawn, then you really don't know each other well enough for him to play mind games and expect you to sort it out. I am currently being extremely patient with a Scorpio who is going through some tough times. :( scorpions will love u or they will hate u. Libra- I can totally relate to if scorpio man doesn't respond to my texts, I think he's done. I am crazy about this guy but if he keeps it up I'm going to have to let him go. I have even called him out on his silence. He will be jealous in silence. So now it's been a bit over 2 weeks and I haven't heard from him, but I have been emailing him all the time and I know everyone said that I should ignore him. Their element is water, meaning they navigate the world through their emotions. I want to add he is younger than me in 6 years, he is 29. Now he's gone. When they get into something, they really go for it. I have a way with words as being a Gemini and I am willing to sacrifice some of my freedom to be with this Scorpio. Well, a couple days ago, he texts me out of the blue "hey wife." If i do , i fear he may not trust me anymore. 10. We had plans for a few months ahead too. A few times over the following three weeks, I came close to contacting him. She may even be seeing someone else on the side. Should I be calling him or a. I pressuring him I really don't want to scare him or make him feel like I am trying to possess him. I guess it was probly #1 thow since his mom is in the hospital. When a Scorpio feels something, their feelings Run deep and it seems really difficult for them to open up at first. I hope this advice helps. Thank you. Too much of us isn't good. Should i stay or should i go. i have fallen deeply in love with this man who has now, after 3 and a half months (yes I know it is a short time) not introduced me to anyone, never invited me over to his house, starting being busy over weekends with family issues only pops over 1 night in the week for the last 3 weeks. In other words, he is creating space in preparation to leave. So one of the things I said was 'it's not normal to not be able to communicate like a normal person at his age' and 'i felt disrespected and if i feel that way that probably means he is not for me, so he needs to carefully think if he really wants to be with me'. 2. (sometimes, not always, but sometimes, it's a flat our lie, esp. Any sign can date any sign; however, studying synastry can help pinpoint particular strengths and challenges in any partnership. The best advice I can give here is to communicate. You might not see the arc, but it's there. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 17, 2012: I have been hub browsing and it seems that a lot of people are having trouble with their scorpios. It makes them feel like they are not important enough to hear what you have to say about how you feel. Please have a spare time to help someone in confusion with scorp man.. be delighted to know some insights.. thank you very much.. Just want to ask for an honest advise. Me and Scorpio make broke up after being together for 2 years. "Not only him, most of the Indians don't take tip for doing such thing, in fact we don't feel it's so big help, we grow up with . Then he explained everything and I was fine. We're both show offs that work for each others attention, but sometimes he doesn't even acknowledge me. But if he is unhappy for any reason no matter how minute, he will withdraw and cheat on you--this is the stinger part. We'll cover: Scorpio is a fixed, feminine, water sign. Water signs are emotional, and Scorpios are most sensitive of all. And wish I could roll more mid field and not the spikes up and down constantly is really tiring. I understand that pisces men need their space but if you think he's cheating on you, he probably is. Secondly, even I am dating a scorpio who sometimes withdraws but who cares , I am going to take it until it reaches my threshold and then i will break it off with him, thirdly , as a leo i am prone to displays of pride and arrogance- the fact that I can acknowledge it and try to be a better person in relationships and not let my Leonine shortcomings define me, so if you are dating a Scorpio who can not control husband baser instincts then please ask him you fuck off , life is too short to run behind weirdos, Fourth of all , I am pretty sure that each of you frustrated girls out here are interesting, beautiful and amazing human beings, remember that when you feel like you are being used. I will say to the women having troubles however, that if he's disapearing for a WK or more regularly, it really has nothing to do with his sign and waay more to do with you're just not a major priority yet. Or he will suddenly have an "issue" where life seems overwhelming. LeAve Nd then reappear in my life. He will not talk about it and shuts right down. I am a venus in scorpio and I can vouch for this. He basically begged for a second chance. He won't lash out right away. After reading all the thread and many many others more I realized he is just like whatever you guys had described. then his txts are so short without endearment. He is soon joined by a group that matches their steps and energy with Hafeez. 6) Why do you care? The obvious man to lead it was Le Grange, the only South African who had ever set foot on the South Pole. Then i felt it got really cold, and then every once in a while he starts texting me, and acting like he's really into me again. how is the best way to respond to text or call after they have been distancing themselves and a little cold. He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. Then I get a long reply to my text were he doesn't see us going anywhere in a relationship because I can't communicate and I make funny faces and seem to take him as a joke and not seriously. He was really obsessive and then he'd cut me off for days. Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. They might cause drama with all their loved ones, and set their life on fire. But I am telling you.. The Scorpio man is perfect in every way. when he shuts down on me and not text me after all I do for him it hurts my feelings and I do talk to him about it but he does not let me know what is going on the reason why he does this. Sorry to say that but then and only then do you get treated the best. At first, I was like omg what did I do wrong and then scorp man let it be known that everything is fine. I am a pisces. He doesn't want to work on your relationship - he wants an excuse to end it. What's holding you back guys? When he opens up and tells you his secrets, it's one of the signs that a Scorpio man has feelings for you. demanding, all this good Things a Guy should have . Well, the last thing I want is to be a stress to him. i know i;m not his priority. This is the first step in his anger cycle. Also, because he clams up, he'll never feel enough guilt to tell you that he's cheating on you. We love each other so much, there is such Trust between us. I haven't called to see what's happening etc I'm just going to go do my own thing and let him be. He has this Sunshine Smile, this happy Puppy Look. He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. This is #1 for a reason. Sometimes i fought with him , coz i thought he does not love me !!!!! Im totally confused coz he's giving me mixed signals. They value honesty and enjoy being . Im a Capricorn so Im very hurt on the inside but Ill never show it outwardly. 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